Pretty Smart Talks To Teens

ANgela Barnett copy 2Book me to talk to your teens at school or get a group together at home. Or ask me questions to:


“As a former marketer, a current mental health worker and a father of 12 and 10 year old daughters I could not speak highly enough of the quality of the content and delivery of Angela’s talk on body image.  The topic feels like a minefield but Angela’s empathic, down to earth delivery, and fearlessness in taking on what has become a culture of marketing by deception, without any consideration for the wellbeing of our girls and young woman, is a true gift  our family is extremely grateful for.”

Nick Brown-Haysom, Auckland.

“I think that the presentation was really inspiring because it tells us young women and young men that looks aren’t everything. You don’t have to change who you are to be accepted. This slideshow was AMAZING and I want every girl to know that they are beautiful, and don’t believe what they see in magazines like Seventeen magazine because that does NOT define beauty.”  

Mya McGraw (14) San Francisco.

 “I learned about Angela through an 8th grade student who had attended her presentation and was so moved that she asked me to bring Angela to speak to the girls at our school. Her presentation was poignant and powerful. The girls attending left with a better understanding of how the media influences girls’ body image and manipulates people into wanting to spend money on their products to try to obtain the image of beauty they portray. This understanding was very empowering for these students.”

Barri Aji, MFT PPS, Middle School Counselor, French American International School

“Totally inspirational… on point and delivered in a way that the girls understood and listened and related.”

Jane Smiley, Piha.


Why Pretty Smart?

10,000 girls are asking Google every month if they’re pretty enough and Google is not kind with its answers.

Something happens to many teen girls around twelve years of age: they lose their confidence. They start worrying about how they look more than how they’re doing in math. And there are higher rates of depression, anxiety, cutting and poor body image than ever before.

And while we can’t blame this all on advertising, messages seen online, at home, and in the mall, reinforce the notion that as a female, being pretty is the most important thing to be. “Media is the only business industry when we can literally paint a picture of the world the way we want it to be,” says Madeline Di Nonno, chief executive of the Geena Davis Institute on Gender in Media. “One 30-second spot can make a lifetime impression.”

Unilever conducted a two-year worldwide global survey and reported that only 2% of ads show women as being intelligent. And only 1% show women as being funny. Sacré bleu!

So I’m doing my little bit to change it up.

Pretty Smart is a talk that will equip teens, age 10 to 12, with critical thinking. It will teach them how to navigate the hundreds of messages they will see every day and understand what’s real and what’s not. It will teach them beauty is more powerful as a feeling than an adjective. Studies show that if teens are taught how the media and advertising works they are less affected by it.

Parents are more scared to have ‘the body image’ chat than ‘the sex’ chat for fear of saying the wrong thing. Teachers are no better equipped. So let’s help our teens navigate this world, and raise a generation who feel Pretty Smart about what they see all around them.

Let’s raise a generation of warriors not worriers!

Talk to me about coming to visit your school (in New Zealand) or home:

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